{"id":6267,"date":"2014-07-01T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2014-07-01T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/2014\/07\/01\/respecting-existential-reality\/"},"modified":"2014-07-01T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2014-07-01T00:00:00","slug":"respecting-existential-reality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/2014\/07\/01\/respecting-existential-reality\/","title":{"rendered":"Respecting Existential Reality"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n\tPrince Saud Al Faisal can be an imposing figure. The Saudi foreign minister is a large man with decades of experience dealing with Saudi Arabia\u2019s place in<br \/>\n\tthe global universe. Much of that aura disappears, however, when the conversation begins.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tI was in Riyadh seated across from the prince, illuminating the nooks and crannies of our brand-new International Religious Freedom Act. As<br \/>\n\tambassador-at-large for the United States, I saw my role as one of \u201cpromoting\u201d religious freedom. Others in Washington, D.C., wanted to put the emphasis on<br \/>\n\t\u201cpunishing\u201d those who were out of compliance with what our Congress had legislated. They were the decibel-raising chest beaters, the testosterone warriors<br \/>\n\twho believed in harsh sanctions at the drop of a church closing. They knew that inflamed rhetoric works in Washington. Unfortunately, it works nowhere else<br \/>\n\tin the world.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tThe foreign minister listened to my presentation intently. He showed me the utmost respect. I think he was pleased that I had come, not to curse the<br \/>\n\tdarkness, but to light a candle for religious freedom. That \u201ccandle\u201d now had the added force of congressional support. The law was on my side.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tBut it was his turn to talk. \u201cNow let me tell you about divine legislation.\u201d He had my attention! I listened quietly, respectfully, as he discussed his<br \/>\n\tfaith and the unique role of faith for Saudi Arabia, namely, the protective custody of two of the three high holy sites of the Islamic faith (Mecca and<br \/>\n\tMedina), which fall within the Saudi Arabia national boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tI realized that we were each acknowledging something about the other. We were exchanging existential realities: it was not whether the other was right or<br \/>\n\twrong, but what the other believed to be true. It\u2019s always easier to respect beliefs than to change them. Understand the best of your own country\u2019s<br \/>\n\tposition. Know enough about your neighbor\u2019s to show it respect. Respect is not endorsement, neither is it compromise, but rather the quiet gleaning of the<br \/>\n\tother\u2019s existential reality. Many good initiatives are lost, prematurely, when the message is drowned out by a methodology that lacks respect.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tOur meeting produced results: private worship by religions other than Islam was sanctioned by the government. Essentially a house church was allowed. For<br \/>\n\tSaudi Arabia this was a huge step forward. Granted, there is a long way to go, and this issue will ebb and flow in the meantime. But a positive foothold<br \/>\n\twas established, one based on a culturally sensitive methodology, understanding and respecting the other.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tWe now have another issue that the U.S. State Department wishes to highlight: human rights that specifically protect gay communities. We want other<br \/>\n\tcountries to design their laws to protect the gay lifestyle. We\u2019ve gone so far as to say that we will hold countries \u201caccountable\u201d for movement in this<br \/>\n\tdirection. Supposedly that means that this issue will have a bearing on our foreign aid, potential trade agreements, security pacts, and the like. Given<br \/>\n\tthe fact that this issue is still very much in process in our own courts, it is being \u201coffered\u201d to the rest of the world with a little bit of hubris.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tUnlike religious freedom, the issue of gay rights is more difficult for the United States to promote. It is clear that major segments of our society<br \/>\n\tcontinue to be troubled by the need for gay rights. Additionally, virtually every major religious denomination has struggled with this issue, with fallout<br \/>\n\ton all sides. Our politicians appear to be equally conflicted, continually \u201cevolving,\u201d enough so that one has to wonder if this is more about votes than<br \/>\n\tvalues. Granted, attitudes appear to be changing, with much of that change happening in the past two decades. This issue has become dominant in American<br \/>\n\tculture. The patriarch of Duck Dynasty notwithstanding, this issue appears ready to continue to move inexorably forward. For now, it is part of our<br \/>\n\texistential reality, howbeit a long way from our Founders\u2019 intentional support of religious freedom.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tHow would we hold other countries accountable regarding this issue? Those countries that are Islamic in nature and governance would find it exceedingly<br \/>\n\tdifficult to make changes to satisfy an American request. This might give new meaning to \u201ca bridge too far.\u201d But there are also majority Christian<br \/>\n\tcountries in Asia and Africa who simply will not budge on this issue.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tSome months ago I received a call from a former colleague with whom I worked while at the State Department. She wanted both help and advice on getting pro<br \/>\n\tgay rights laws enacted in Uganda. I knew immediately the size and steepness of the hill she had decided to climb. The AIDS epidemic, in the minds of many<br \/>\n\tAfricans, started in Uganda. Uganda was \u201cground zero\u201d for an epidemic that almost wiped out an entire continent. Once the disease was detected, Uganda took<br \/>\n\ta very aggressive approach to solving this killer. Training programs were begun, information was promulgated along the truck routes that had aided the<br \/>\n\tspread of the disease. Uganda asked the world community for help in getting ahead of the curve and stopping the disease through proper education. The<br \/>\n\tcountry\u2019s efforts were honest, open, helpful&mdash;and heroic&mdash;to all of Africa and the world.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tNow this country was being pressured to adopt laws to protect gay rights. The difficulties are obvious. How easy is it to legalize gay rights when, rightly<br \/>\n\tor wrongly, a country feels that this behavior carries a disease that almost destroyed a country, if not a continent? And how does another country hold<br \/>\n\tUganda \u201caccountable\u201d in the process? To have so little respect for Uganda\u2019s reality suggests societal naivet\u00e9 at best, and at worst cultural imperialism.<br \/>\n\tThere is obviously something wrong when human rights have to be coercively applied.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tOne of the mantras of religious freedom is that for faith to be authentic, it has to be freely embraced. Coercive initiatives toward religion are anathemas<br \/>\n\tto its freedom. Might we be crossing that line with this issue? When do we switch from \u201cpromoting\u201d to \u201cpunishing\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>\n\tThere have been stirrings in the State Department to tie the issue of gay rights to religious freedom. The logic behind this desire is hard to explain, but<br \/>\n\tthe possibility continues to be pushed, regardless of logic.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tIt is true that religious freedom is foundational to all human rights. Freedom of conscience and belief introduces our nation\u2019s Bill of Rights.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tThomas Jefferson saw it as our \u201cfirst freedom,\u201d allowing for other freedoms such as assembly, speech, and press to also be free. If we were ever put into a<br \/>\n\tsituation in which religious freedom was lost, all of the other freedoms that we prize would be gone as well. It is also true that when religious freedom<br \/>\n\tis weakened in any way, all of our human rights are similarly weakened. There is a certain logic for putting religious freedom at the tip of our human<br \/>\n\trights spear for other countries. This is a right that commands universal agreement in the United States. Religious freedom is the very definition of<br \/>\n\t\u201csettled\u201d law, and encumbering this right with issues far less settled, both within and without the country, does not seem to be a wise step forward.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tSo how do we address this emerging issue in foreign affairs, an issue that is so societally complex and controversial? Pope Francis recently surprised a<br \/>\n\tlot of people when the issue of gay rights was broached with him. \u201cThe church is obsessed\u201d with this issue, he said, a phrase that also suggests that this<br \/>\n\twas not where he wanted to stand his ground.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tMore than stepping away from confrontation, however, Pope Francis clearly wanted to change the tone of the discussion. He obviously did not want methods to<br \/>\n\tdestroy message, for he was quick to point out what that main message was. Above all, he did not want to lose \u201cthe freshness and fragrance of the gospel.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\n\tIt is much better to listen with love than confront with judgment. We all must come to see the existential reality of the \u201cother.\u201d With listening comes<br \/>\n\trespect and honor for the human dignity of all persons.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tHopefully it is obvious that we need to avoid the \u201cWe have it; you need it; look out, world, here we come\u201d approach. Rather we need to take the time to<br \/>\n\tlisten intently, understand fully, and proceed cautiously. We need to get both the substance and the tone right. We also need to know the difference in<br \/>\n\t\u201cpromoting\u201d versus \u201cpunishing.\u201d Mutual respect will go a long way in making this come out right.<\/p>\n<p>\n\tA Final Word That Speaks to the Christian<\/p>\n<p>\n\tWe come at such an exercise from a position of profound strength. Our spiritual reality is based on an exclusive King and an inclusive kingdom. We<br \/>\n\tcelebrate the \u201cwhosoever\u201d of John 3:16; an inclusive word for our time and all time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Prince Saud Al Faisal can be an imposing figure. The Saudi foreign minister is a large man with decades of experience dealing with Saudi Arabia\u2019s place in the global universe. Much of that aura disappears, however, when the conversation begins. I was in Riyadh seated across from the prince, illuminating the nooks and crannies of<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[301],"tags":[133],"class_list":["post-6267","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-july-august-2014","tag-july-august-2014"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6267","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6267"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6267\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6267"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6267"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.charming-bohr.160-238-31-172.plesk.page\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6267"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}